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The Rights of the Neighbor


Allah
, Almighty says in Qur’an [worship Allah and join none with Him and be good to the parents, the kinsfolk, the orphans, the needy, the neighbor of kin, the alien neighbor, and the companion in a journey …] an-Nisa’ 4:36. Allah ordered the people to be good to the neighbor as well as they do to their parents and kinsfolk, orphans and needy. This indicates how much we must respect the rights of the neighbor as a relationship, which Allah imposed between them. Also our Messenger [PPBUH] advised us to respect this relation as the Messenger of Allah [PPBUH] said (Oh Abo-Zarr, if you cook soup use more water and give your neighbors), narrated by Muslim. Abo-Zarr also said “My intimate friend said to me (if you cook soup, use plenty of water, then see who is the nearest neighbor and give him some), narrated by Muslim. How will we be if we followed this? Would we see any hungry people then?  This talk is one of the basics of social solidarity in Islam, which may be absent from some of us. Now, selfishness may have replaced it. This would lead to a gap among the classes of the society and prevents the spreading of intimacy and cordiality among them.

Safety is another important quality that should be fulfilled in a neighbor. As a neighbor should feel safe from any harm or trespassing of his rights by his neighbor. The Prophet [PPBUH] said (I swear to Allah that one can not be a believer) He said that three times. So people said: who is this one, Oh, Messenger of Allah? The Prophet [PPBUH] said (that is the one whom his neighbor does not feel safe of his bad deeds), narrated by al-Nawawi. He [PPBUH] also said, in another narration, (the one whom his neighbor does not feel safe of his bad deeds, never enters paradise). In another narration, the Messenger of Allah [PPBUH] was asked: what is the bad deeds? He replied (aggression and injustice), narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim.

The Messenger of Allah [PPBUH] said (whoever believes in Allah and the judgment day, never harms his neighbor), narrated by at-Tabarani.

Once Abdullah slaughtered a sheep, then he said: Did you give some of it to our Jewish neighbor? He repeated that three times, then he said: I heard the Prophet [PPBUH] saying (Gabriel kept telling me about the rights of the neighbor, till I thought he will make him inherit me), narrated by al-Mosnad and at-Turmuzi.

The Prophet [PPBUH] banned hurting the neighbor even with the tongue. Abo-Huraira said that the Prophet [PPBUH] was told about a woman, who used to fast all days and pray all nights but used to hurt her neighbors with her tongue. The Prophet [PPBUH] said (She is no good, she is in hell). They said: then what about that other woman who only prays the duty prayers, only fasts in Ramadan, and gives away some charity, but she never hurts anyone with her tongue? He said (She is in paradise) “Al-Mustadrak” of al-Hakim and “the treasure of the workers”. Abo-Huraira said that the Messenger of Allah [PPBUH] said (O, Muslim women, no woman should consider it little and scorn to her neighbor, even if it is a small Farsen of a sheep) narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim. It means that a woman should not refrain gifts or charity from her neighbor because she scorns it, rather she should give whatever she has even if it is a Farsan, which is: small bones with little meat on it, it is in the place of the end of the sheep leg; they call it also “Kawarea”.

Maintaining and preserving the sacred rights of the neighbor has its preference. However, in our society we do the opposite. A young man would annoy the girl next door, which is an abuse to the neighbor’s rights, a preach to his safety, and an aggression on chasteness and purity. It is Also a great sin because it abuses the rights of the neighbor. Abdullah ibn Mas’oud asked the Messenger of Allah [PPBUH]: what is the great sin? He [PPBUH] replied (to make a partner to Allah though He created you). Ibn Masoud said: then what? He [PPBUH] said (to kill your son lest he should share you your food). Ibn Masoud said: then what? He said [PPBUH] (to commit adultery with the rightful wife of your neighbor). Narrated by al-Bukhary and al-Bayhky. In a narration by at-Turmuzy, he said that the Messenger of Allah [PPBUH] then recited [those who share not with Allah any other god, nor kill any soul that Allah made sacred except for just cause, nor commit fornication. And who does this, will be guilty, will meet double punishment and will have eternal humiliation] Furqan 25:68. The extension of the Hadith was narrated by at-Turmuzy and ibn Hayyan. The Hadith connected the prohibition of adultery in this verse with its worst form, i.e. with neighbor's wife.

Abo-Hurayra, in the two Sahihs, told us that the Prophet [PPBUH] said (no one should prevent his neighbor to fix a piece of wood in his own wall), Abo-Hurayra added: Why do I see you rejecting that, I swear that I will hit you in between your shoulders with it. In Al Imam Ahmad doctrine, he said that a man should allow his neighbor to fix a piece of wood on his wall if he needs, and if it would not damage the wall, because of this Sahih Hadith. This would also indicate that should give his neighbor of the excess of what he has. Al-Marouzy said to Abi-Abdullah, Imam Ahmad, that he would hear a beggar saying that he is hungry. Imam Ahmad said "He may be saying the truth or lying". Al-Marouzy said: If I know that my neighbor could be hungry? Imam Ahmad said "You support him", i.e. give him from what you have. Al-Marouzy said: If my provision of food is only two loaves? Imam Ahmad said "You feed him something". This refers to the Hadith of consoling the neighbors. Al-Marouzy said: Then the rich must support the poor? Imam Ahmad said "If a man puts something to another, then how could not he be legible to consoling?" Al-Marouzy said: If a man has two garments, then he should support others? Imam Ahmad said "If he needs it to be a virtue". That was a statement of him that consoling is a due virtue, and it is not limited to neighbors. Abo-Hany said about begging: If they are lying, then it is better, as if they are truthful then we must support them. This means that we have to support hungry of the neighbors and of the others. The Prophet [PPBUH] said (feed the hungry, visit the sick, and help the needy). In the Musnad and Sahih al-Hakim, ibn Omar narrated that the Prophet [PPBUH] said (if there is a hungry man in a courtyard, then Allah's care and protection will be acquitted from them).

According to the doctrine of Imam Ahmad and Imam Malik: a neighbor should not do any thing with his own properties, which would result in hurting his neighbor. They both saw that preventing the hurt of the neighbor is due even if you have to stop using your own property. Imam Ahmad said: a man should give his neighbor all what he needs if it would not hurt him. Better than that, is to be patient on his neighbor's harm and never repays him with any harm. Al-Hassan said "Good neighboring is not to stop harming the neighbor but to bear his harm". Abo-Zarr narrated that (Allah loves a man who is being hurt by his neighbor but he keeps patient they are done apart by death or departure). Narrated by Imam Ahmad. In Abdul-Rahman al-Hably's letters, he said: a man came to the Prophet [PPBUH] complaining from his neighbor. The Prophet [PPBUH] said to him (do not hurt him and be patient to his harm, as death is enough to separate between you). Narrated by Abo-ad-Donya.

It means that if there is neighbor who sleeps hungry, then the responsibility will be on his neighbor who sleeps full. If a man has extra food, money, or garments, he should give some of them to his neighbor. If there is something good to your neighbor without harm to you must do it. If there is something useful to you from within what you have, but harmful to the neighbor, then it is prevented for you. Moreover, if your neighbor harms you, you have to put up with him and be patient. There is an old proverb that says "Be patient with your bad neighbor, he will either travel or get into the mercy of Allah". In conclusion, the solidarity that Islam founded, gives the neighbor the right to the support of his neighbor. We ask Allah to cast us all with His mercy.

 

Written by Nadia

Translated by Ahmad al-burhany

 

 

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